I have debated much about whether to post these thoughts because I appreciate what other churches are doing to demonstrate and share God’s love with the people who live in our community. Our missions ministry is certainly concerned about the welfare of those who live around us. That’s why, in addition to our international initiatives, we mobilize upwards of three thousand volunteers annually to serve people in need in our own community. We invest hundreds of thousands of dollars annually in local initiatives that include caring for widows and single moms and children at risk, feeding and clothing the homeless, supporting substance abuse and crisis pregnancy ministries, underwriting the cost of a community vegetable garden that provides fresh produce to hundreds, ministering to refugees from South Asia, supporting new church initiatives, refurbishing and furnishing a safe-house for girls rescued from sex trafficking in the Houston area, and much more.
In recent weeks I have become increasingly disturbed by some of the things that churches are doing in the name of the gospel. One church promises a free gift to every first-time guest. I’m not certain how many unbelievers will be swayed to get up, get dressed, and go to a church filled with people they don’t know just to get a free gift. And, if you can attract and keep a member from another church with a gift, then …! Enough said. This is just one more reason why I am not a fan of the attractional paradigm. I believe there is something better that can attract people to the gospel — namely a person who genuinely loves, cares, and befriends others who don’t know Christ.
Then, a friend showed me a mailer from another church in a neighboring community. This church is giving away a quarter of a million dollars of free electronic gadgets, vacation getaways, bikes for kids and even a motorcycle. That’s right, they are giving away a quarter of a million dollars of stuff to people whose homes are already overstuffed with stuff. All of this to illustrate that the best things in life are free! To make this campaign even more attractive they are advertising: “There’s no catch. No weird stuff. No commitment.” Sorry, but this is all a bit weird. Are these really the best things? Is this really the ultimate giveaway? It’s my understanding that the ultimate giveaway happened more than two-thousand years ago when Jesus paid the ultimate price for our sins.
As someone who is committed to mobilizing the church to be the church — to be Jesus with skin on in the community, I was stunned. Having mobilized thousands to leave the pews to engage with people in the community, I know what God can do in and through members who will give themselves away instead of trying to attract people to us by giving away stuff. My previous blog post was about asking God to break our heart for what breaks His. Is God’s heart really broken because someone does not have a high-definition television or other stuff like that? Or is His heart broken for widows and orphans and the oppressed that live among us? How is it possible to be so out of touch with the passions of God for the lost and hurting people in our workplaces and neighborhoods? The Houston area ranks at the top of the list of places in this country where young girls are trafficked and forced to work in the commercial sex trade. By some estimates there are less than one-hundred beds in safe-houses in this country for girls who are rescued from sex-trafficking. Imagine the lasting impact that a quarter of a million dollars could make in providing a safe haven for these rescued girls and in promoting justice. How can you justify giving more stuff to people who rent storage units to keep their extra stuff when we are surrounded by so much need? How can you justify that kind of stewardship?
When I was in India two months ago with more than forty of our students, I noticed that they talked only about Jesus and how wonderful He is. I told our students that at home, Christians tend to talk about everything but Jesus. However, working among the least of these and with the one-hundred-plus girls who reside at the safe-house we support in West Bengal, our students could only talk about Jesus and how wonderful He is and how He loves and cares about people and has the power to transform lives. It was all very much like the first-century when the church focused on Jesus and the importance of making a commitment to follow Him.
Something good happens when we focus on Jesus and exalt Him. Jesus said, “And I, when I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all people to myself” (John 12:32). He is the draw, not a drawing for door-prizes. Why do we think that Jesus isn’t enough and that we must bait people with stuff? I told our students in India that my prayer was that as they returned to their normal lives at home their default setting would be to talk about Jesus first and make Him the focus of their conversations. I challenged them to be Jesus with skin on and to earn the right to share the gospel by the way they love and care for others. There is something attractive about seeing Jesus with skin on — seeing someone who cares and who serves as He did.
I am not a member of the giving-away-stuff church. They are an autonomous body of believers who decide for themselves how they will relate to their community. They alone are responsible for their stewardship of funds. If they want to give away free stuff then they can give away free stuff. As for me, I will continue to challenge those under my influence to give themselves away, to look at our community as Jesus would, and to allow God to break their hearts for what breaks His. I will continue to challenge people to meet their neighbors and to meet needs. I believe that Jesus is enough and that when we exalt Him good things happen. I’d really rather have Jesus than stuff!










